Jan 25

What if my bf doesn’t get my roses for valentines day =O?

If my bf doesn’t get me roses for valentines day I think I’m going to go crazy. Is something wrong with me?
we’ve dated for 2 years and he’s never bought me flowers. Maybe that’ll explain a little bit more on where i’m coming from.

Well…not wrong, exactly, but I think you do need to grow up. It’s pretty shallow to have so much invested in this. Think about it…why roses? Because everybody says that it should be roses? Why does he have to give them to you on Valentine’s Day? Because everybody says that’s what you do?

There are more individual and heartfelt ways of showing love.

Valentines roses 8 Comments

8 comments...

  1. Posted by ISSIK 25th January, 2010 at 11:18 am

    YES!, yes, yes, yes, Greedy snob
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  2. Posted by Alex 25th January, 2010 at 11:41 am

    That’s a pretty minor reason for going crazy. Does he know you want roses? Do you think if he doesn’t give you roses it means he doesn’t care about you?

    If your relationship is working, why would you go postal over a bunch of flowers? Give the guy a break…
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  3. Posted by Yara A 25th January, 2010 at 12:22 pm

    well.. YES!! so what if he doesnt get you roses?? that doesnt mean he doesnt love you! this is a very commercial side of valentines. you should focus on spending a nice romantic night with your bf instead of worrying about silly roses.
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  4. Posted by Karan 25th January, 2010 at 12:54 pm

    What have you got for your bf? That is what matters. How much you love him?
    I love my gf more that anyone and going to keep loving her even after knowing she loves someone else. I just don’t have any expectations from her.
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  5. Posted by esanju20022002 25th January, 2010 at 1:33 pm

    Really, why roses? Why can’t it be some other flower. You might want to branch out and prove your not like other girls. Everyone is getting roses why not be different and ask for something different. My question to you is…..If you don’t get roses from him, will you not want to be with him anymore? Relax its supposed to be a day of love. Be happy with what he gives you as long as your together who cares.
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  6. Posted by ellie 25th January, 2010 at 2:49 pm

    Well…not wrong, exactly, but I think you do need to grow up. It’s pretty shallow to have so much invested in this. Think about it…why roses? Because everybody says that it should be roses? Why does he have to give them to you on Valentine’s Day? Because everybody says that’s what you do?

    There are more individual and heartfelt ways of showing love.
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  7. Posted by =Support Love= 25th January, 2010 at 3:07 pm

    Yes, I think so
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  8. Posted by Girzie 25th January, 2010 at 4:01 pm

    Well, I hope he does but not everybody is so thoughtful. Have you hinted you would like flowers? Sometimes guys need things spelled out for them!
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